the illusion of “when”
What if contentment doesn't live on the other side of your next achievement?
my 12-year-old son coached me today
Your dreams and goals are like seeds — they're already within you. A coach brings the process that helps those seeds flourish, and the accountability that helps you take the risks that matter.
what my cousin taught me about receiving
Receiving is about allowing ourselves to be vulnerable enough for real connection. Every time we deflect a compliment or push away a gift, we may be rejecting the relationship itself—not just the gesture.
why you might need a change of scenery
We don't just occupy spaces—they occupy us. And sometimes, the next phase of our growth requires us to change our scenery.
beyond to-do lists: your "to-be" list
I was getting everything done—but I was getting lost in doing what I do rather than being who I am. That's when I started creating my "to-be" list.
overwhelmed by the problem? ask the right question
What if the most powerful response to uncertainty is leaning into the not knowing and asking questions?
transform your conversations: 3 Levels of listening
Most of us think we're good listeners—but are we? Learn the three levels of listening, why Level 1 is so easy to slip into, and simple practices that can transform your relationships at work and at home.
AI: what every leader should know
Nonprofits ought to consider how the use of generative AI conflicts with their mission, vision, and values—and then decide how to act accordingly. Here's a framework to help.
"how authentic am I?" a simple assessment
What does it mean to be truly authentic — and how would you even know if you're falling short? This post breaks down authenticity into three measurable pillars — fierce courage, connection, and aliveness — and offers a simple self-assessment plus reflection questions to help you find your way back to yourself.
ever heard of WAIT? "why am I talking?"
Words can heal or harm, elevate or diminish. They can build bridges of understanding or walls of separation. The most potent aspect of our words isn't just what we say, but when, how, and why we choose to say them.
beyond 'good job': the power of being truly seen
When someone witnesses what we did rather than sharing how they feel about what we did, we internalize our own value instead of seeking external validation. Acknowledgment isn't just a communication skill — it's a way of truly seeing another person.
"psst... Your saboteurs are showing..."
Your inner saboteurs — the Controller, the Pleaser, the Restless — may have helped you succeed in the past. But they could be the very thing preventing you from becoming the leader you want to be. Here's how to recognize and work with them.